Sometimes it can feel like you have to be an expert in female psychology to do well with women.  Just when you think you know what is going on and what you need to do to make a woman like you,  you'll have one of those experiences that just proves that you don't know as much as you thought you did.  It would be nice to feel like you know a few female psychology secrets that other guys don't,  so that you don't have to go through those kinds of experiences and so that you can do better with women than most average guys do.

These 3 female psychology secrets to attract women are going to help you attract women right away:


1.  Women say that they want to meet a guy who is nice and polite,   but if you don't show a woman that you have the balls to approach her,  it doesn't matter how nice and polite you are.

This is one of those "secrets" that some guys do eventually come to know and when they do,  they wish that they could go back and tell themselves not to try to be one of those nice and polite guys who never really ever approaches women.  Look,  it's not a bad thing to be a nice guy and I am not saying that you have to turn into an a******e to attract a woman.  However,  if you don't have the balls to approach a woman,  don't expect her to be turned on and attracted to you.

2.  A woman will be much more likely to be turned on by you if you are able to make her feel secure around you.

Being able to make a woman feel like she is totally secure and safe when she is around you is a big deal.  It's one of the reasons why women tend to be attracted to men who look like they can protect a woman.  You don't have to be a body builder to give a woman the sense that you can protect her and make her feel secure.  One of the things that you can do is to show her that you are calm in just about any situation and she'll feed off of that vibe and feel a sense of security and safety.

3.  If you can get a woman to commit to competing with another woman for your affection,  you'll end up having a chance to be with her easily.

This is one of those things that most guys never learn because no one really tells you that this works.  Women won't because they are not aware of the fact that they do this or they just don't want to admit it.  Men don't because the ones that do know that this works know just how well it does and it becomes one of those female psychology secrets that they don't want to share with others.  Being able to make a woman feel like she has to compete with another and make her feel attracted to you enough that she commits to competing with that women is one of the easiest ways to end up hooking up with her.

You've gotten her phone number and it is clear that she is definitely attracted to you and you like that.  However,  the doubts start to creep in,  the low expectations start to come back and now,  you are wondering whether or not you are really going to be able to make her want you.  If there was one thing that bad boys who attract women easily know,  it's that you can't make things harder on yourself than they already are.  When you overthink things to the point where you start to second guess your successes... you are setting yourself up for eventual failure.

All you have to do is to stop making it so hard on yourself and just let it happen.

Once you have already gotten her phone number and you know that she is attracted to you,  all you have to do is BUILD on that attraction.  When you start to get pessimistic and you start to worry about losing her attraction,  that is when you are going to eventually lose that attraction that she feels.  You don't want to lose that attraction,  so DON'T.

Stop overthinking things and just let it be.

Call her up.  Have some fun.  Get a date with her and then work on wowing her and making her feel like her attraction for you is growing.  Don't start thinking that she is going to change her mind or that you are going to end up messing things up.  You won't if you are relaxed and having a good time.  You will if you start to overthink things and you start to allow your doubts and your worries creep in and confuse you and make you feel like you don't know what you are doing.

I know that deep down inside,  you are more than just a little bit curious about what it might be like if you were actually good at seducing women.  Sure,  there might be a part of you that seems to be skeptical about whether or not you have the skills to try and seduce a woman,  but you have to admit that it would be a lot of fun if you knew how to approach a woman and make her feel like she is totally attracted to you.

Here are 3 seduction tips that just can't be ignored if you want to get good at seducing women:


1.  You have to become a master at approaching women with confidence.

Don't feel like you have the confidence to approach a woman?  Well,  then you are going to have to build confidence with women because without it,  you really don't stand much of a chance.  Now,  just feeling confident is not enough to make women suddenly feel hot for you,  but not having any confidence around women is a sure way to end up losing any chance that you might have had of being able to hook up with her.

2.  Women want to be around guys who know how to have fun,  not guys who complain all of the time.

I used to hang out with this one guy once in a while and he was really bad when it came to women.  And while he would come up with all of these excuses for why that was,  most of the time it came down to the fact that he just wasn't that fun to be around.  So,  even if he did meet a woman,  she'd want to bail after talking to him for a few minutes because he was always finding something to complain about.

3.  Knowing what it takes to make a woman feel sexually attracted to you makes all of the difference.

What makes the difference between a guy who is good at being friends with women versus a guy who is really good at ending up in bed with women?  The ones that know how to get a woman into bed are able to make a woman feel sexually attracted to them.  If you can make a woman feel like she is really attracted to you on a sexually level,  seducing a woman isn't that difficult at all.

Do you really want to become more of a bad boy when it comes to getting women?  If so,  then you might want to ditch those dating rules for men that every dude seems to want to follow and become a rule breaker this year.  You don't want to have anything hold you back from having success with women,  and one thing that will definitely hold you back is if you pass up making the move on a woman you like all because you are trying to blindly follow some rules on dating that you think you are supposed to follow.

They are only guidelines anyway.

If you study human behavior in any regard,  then you should know that there are no absolutes.  Since dating is all about human behavior and the interactions between men and women,  there are no absolutes in this arena,  either.  So,  if there is one resolution that you should make this year -  it is to STOP following the rules if they seem to get in the way of your success with women.

Of course,  you should have OTHER goals or resolutions as well.

You don't want to become so one dimensional that all you think about is how to get better with women.  The funny thing about it is,  if you do become one of those guys who only thinks about getting better with women -  you'll probably get worse because being one dimensional like that just isn't all that attractive.  It doesn't give you much to talk about,  either.

Set some goals or some resolutions,  just make sure that one of them is to become a rule breaker of sorts if you want to genuinely enjoy being a bad boy.