You've gotten her phone number and it is clear that she is definitely attracted to you and you like that. However, the doubts start to creep in, the low expectations start to come back and now, you are wondering whether or not you are really going to be able to make her want you. If there was one thing that bad boys who attract women easily know, it's that you can't make things harder on yourself than they already are. When you overthink things to the point where you start to second guess your successes... you are setting yourself up for eventual failure.
All you have to do is to stop making it so hard on yourself and just let it happen.
Once you have already gotten her phone number and you know that she is attracted to you, all you have to do is BUILD on that attraction. When you start to get pessimistic and you start to worry about losing her attraction, that is when you are going to eventually lose that attraction that she feels. You don't want to lose that attraction, so DON'T.
Stop overthinking things and just let it be.
Call her up. Have some fun. Get a date with her and then work on wowing her and making her feel like her attraction for you is growing. Don't start thinking that she is going to change her mind or that you are going to end up messing things up. You won't if you are relaxed and having a good time. You will if you start to overthink things and you start to allow your doubts and your worries creep in and confuse you and make you feel like you don't know what you are doing.
All you have to do is to stop making it so hard on yourself and just let it happen.
Once you have already gotten her phone number and you know that she is attracted to you, all you have to do is BUILD on that attraction. When you start to get pessimistic and you start to worry about losing her attraction, that is when you are going to eventually lose that attraction that she feels. You don't want to lose that attraction, so DON'T.
Stop overthinking things and just let it be.
Call her up. Have some fun. Get a date with her and then work on wowing her and making her feel like her attraction for you is growing. Don't start thinking that she is going to change her mind or that you are going to end up messing things up. You won't if you are relaxed and having a good time. You will if you start to overthink things and you start to allow your doubts and your worries creep in and confuse you and make you feel like you don't know what you are doing.
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