It can be kind of hard to stop being this way if it is the way that you have been for a long time, but if you really want to make women see you as an alpha male type, you have to stop trying to be everything to everyone. Being the kind of guy who will let people run all over him and take advantage of you is definitely not going to make women think of you as being an alpha male in the slightest. It also probably doesn't feel that good if you tend to be that guy that gets taken advantage of.
There are plenty of women who will do that, if they know that they can.
Let me tell you a story about Mark.
Mark is a good guy. He wants people to like him and he is always quick to lend a helping hand. Sometimes that means that he gets taken advantage of. Mark goes out to a club one night and meets Mandy. Mandy is pretty, she knows how to come across as really sexy and alluring and Mark is smitten from the moment that he lays eyes on her. She can tell right away just the kind of guy he is. She flirts with him, she leads him on. He takes her home that night, but not in the way that you are thinking. He drives her back to her apartment and drops her off. Doesn't even bother to go in for the kiss because he doesn't want her to think he is just trying to get her in bed or something.
Over the course of the next few weeks, Mark is still smitten by Mandy. He calls her up all of the time, whenever she implies that she needs something, he just happens to go out and buy it for her. They spend a lot of time with one another, but never really get physical. She pecks him on the lips real quickly every now and again and that is all that it takes to keep Mark coming back for more.
Next thing you know, Mark has spent a couple grand on Mandy and she is still not even his girlfriend. He kind of thinks that she is, but she is totally not. They go out to a club together and Mark swears that they are going as a couple. While they are there, Mandy locks eyes with Travis. Travis is a bad boy, wouldn't spend a dime on her and is totally about trying to get her into bed.
Before the night is over, Mandy is fooling around with Travis in the corner of the club. Mark is standing against the wall, still a little naive to what is actually going on. Mandy comes back to him and tells him that she is going to stay and that he can go home if she wants to. Finally, Mark gets it. He sees her run back over to Travis and he sees Travis palming her backside. Mark goes home alone, feeling like a loser, his bank account near empty.
There are a lot of Marks out there and there definitely are a lot of Mandys. You don't want to be a Mark and end up getting played like that. It will happen, though, if you are the type that tries to be everything to everybody, because women like Mandy can spot you from a mile away and they KNOW how to get what they want from you.
There are plenty of women who will do that, if they know that they can.
Let me tell you a story about Mark.
Mark is a good guy. He wants people to like him and he is always quick to lend a helping hand. Sometimes that means that he gets taken advantage of. Mark goes out to a club one night and meets Mandy. Mandy is pretty, she knows how to come across as really sexy and alluring and Mark is smitten from the moment that he lays eyes on her. She can tell right away just the kind of guy he is. She flirts with him, she leads him on. He takes her home that night, but not in the way that you are thinking. He drives her back to her apartment and drops her off. Doesn't even bother to go in for the kiss because he doesn't want her to think he is just trying to get her in bed or something.
Over the course of the next few weeks, Mark is still smitten by Mandy. He calls her up all of the time, whenever she implies that she needs something, he just happens to go out and buy it for her. They spend a lot of time with one another, but never really get physical. She pecks him on the lips real quickly every now and again and that is all that it takes to keep Mark coming back for more.
Next thing you know, Mark has spent a couple grand on Mandy and she is still not even his girlfriend. He kind of thinks that she is, but she is totally not. They go out to a club together and Mark swears that they are going as a couple. While they are there, Mandy locks eyes with Travis. Travis is a bad boy, wouldn't spend a dime on her and is totally about trying to get her into bed.
Before the night is over, Mandy is fooling around with Travis in the corner of the club. Mark is standing against the wall, still a little naive to what is actually going on. Mandy comes back to him and tells him that she is going to stay and that he can go home if she wants to. Finally, Mark gets it. He sees her run back over to Travis and he sees Travis palming her backside. Mark goes home alone, feeling like a loser, his bank account near empty.
There are a lot of Marks out there and there definitely are a lot of Mandys. You don't want to be a Mark and end up getting played like that. It will happen, though, if you are the type that tries to be everything to everybody, because women like Mandy can spot you from a mile away and they KNOW how to get what they want from you.
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