We've all had that one girlfriend that stood out from the rest.
Maybe she was the prettiest woman that you've ever dated. Maybe she was the most caring or kind. Or, maybe she just knew how to have a good time and being around her put you in a totally different state of mind.
When you have a woman that you just can't get over, it makes you think about the what if?
What if you could have another chance with her?
What if she still thought about you?
What if things had been different and you and her had never broken up.
While you are thinking about all of those things, it can be good to identify that there is or was a quality that she had that you really dug. Something about her that made you feel like she was the one.
So, what you really might be after is someone that has that quality and of course, since she is the one that you identify with that quality... she is the first image that is going to pop into your mind.
That doesn't mean that it has to be her though.
That might just mean that you know what you really like and if you could find another woman that had that same quality, you'd be falling head over for heels for that one.
I'm cool with the idea that some guys want to get back with their ex girlfriend. I don't think that is always a bad thing. I do think that sometimes it just has to do with the fact that she had that quality that you were really after, and it is more that quality that you were attracted to than it was her.
Maybe she was the prettiest woman that you've ever dated. Maybe she was the most caring or kind. Or, maybe she just knew how to have a good time and being around her put you in a totally different state of mind.
When you have a woman that you just can't get over, it makes you think about the what if?
What if you could have another chance with her?
What if she still thought about you?
What if things had been different and you and her had never broken up.
While you are thinking about all of those things, it can be good to identify that there is or was a quality that she had that you really dug. Something about her that made you feel like she was the one.
So, what you really might be after is someone that has that quality and of course, since she is the one that you identify with that quality... she is the first image that is going to pop into your mind.
That doesn't mean that it has to be her though.
That might just mean that you know what you really like and if you could find another woman that had that same quality, you'd be falling head over for heels for that one.
I'm cool with the idea that some guys want to get back with their ex girlfriend. I don't think that is always a bad thing. I do think that sometimes it just has to do with the fact that she had that quality that you were really after, and it is more that quality that you were attracted to than it was her.
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