You don't have to just worry about giving off the right or wrong impression to a woman when you first meet her. You have to worry about that to some extent throughout the relationship. Learning that the hard way can be tough, because it usually comes at the expense of the relationship. It's usually when a guy gets dumped by the woman that he is dating that he finally realizes that he slacked off a bit or he started to act the wrong way around his girlfriend and that is why she lost her attraction to him.
What happens when you want her back, though?
Well... most guys will do something like this: They will make it well known to their ex girlfriend that they are stuck on her. And they do that because they assume that it is the right thing to do. However, it usually isn't.
Here is what happens when she knows that you are stuck on her:
1) You are in no way a challenge to her at all. She already knows that she can have you whenever and wherever she wants and that takes that chase element out of things.
2) You become a fall back option. You are now someone that she knows that she can get with if she can't find anyone else. Kind of like, you'll take the generic brand at the grocery store when that is all that they have, but what you really want is the national brand. Not exactly the way that you want your ex girlfriend to see you, is it?
3) You become emotionally controlled by her. The funny thing about this is, she doesn't even really have to do a thing to control you. She might not even want to do that. But you will let her because any little thing that she does, you'll analyze to see what it means. You'll get heart broken if she ignores you, even if otherwise you were having a great day.
There are better things that you can do to try and win back your ex girlfriend that have nothing to do with letting her know that you are still stuck on her. Most of the time, those things are going to be much more effective anyway, so you might as well focus on those things and forget about making it know to her that you are stuck on her.
What happens when you want her back, though?
Well... most guys will do something like this: They will make it well known to their ex girlfriend that they are stuck on her. And they do that because they assume that it is the right thing to do. However, it usually isn't.
Here is what happens when she knows that you are stuck on her:
1) You are in no way a challenge to her at all. She already knows that she can have you whenever and wherever she wants and that takes that chase element out of things.
2) You become a fall back option. You are now someone that she knows that she can get with if she can't find anyone else. Kind of like, you'll take the generic brand at the grocery store when that is all that they have, but what you really want is the national brand. Not exactly the way that you want your ex girlfriend to see you, is it?
3) You become emotionally controlled by her. The funny thing about this is, she doesn't even really have to do a thing to control you. She might not even want to do that. But you will let her because any little thing that she does, you'll analyze to see what it means. You'll get heart broken if she ignores you, even if otherwise you were having a great day.
There are better things that you can do to try and win back your ex girlfriend that have nothing to do with letting her know that you are still stuck on her. Most of the time, those things are going to be much more effective anyway, so you might as well focus on those things and forget about making it know to her that you are stuck on her.
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