Some guys like to sweat the little things. They focus in on one little detail and they become obsessed with it. That's not a way to live, in my opinion. I've dealt with guys who wanted to know things like should they be friends with an ex girlfriend on Facebook and you know what?
While I understand the concern, when you look at it from a bigger picture perspective...
You'll see that it doesn't really make sense to be too concerned with something like that. Not when there is a much bigger picture involved. In the example of a guy wanting to know about being friends with an ex girlfriend on Facebook, the bigger picture is that they are still usually in love with her and that is what the real issue is.
Problem is, when you sweat the little things, you usually lose the energy that you could have spent on something bigger and better.
A guy who is concerned about Facebook should probably be more concerned with his overall dating life and not just with a simple site that really doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things.
That's not the only time that I see guys sweating the small stuff. Even something like worrying about what shirt to wear to a club is really not that big of a thing if what you are trying to do is attract a woman. The style of the shirt doesn't matter one bit if you don't have the skill to talk to a woman or if you don't have the courage to even approach a woman.
Trust me, very few situations hinge on something so small. Especially when it comes to something like dating or meeting women.
While I understand the concern, when you look at it from a bigger picture perspective...
You'll see that it doesn't really make sense to be too concerned with something like that. Not when there is a much bigger picture involved. In the example of a guy wanting to know about being friends with an ex girlfriend on Facebook, the bigger picture is that they are still usually in love with her and that is what the real issue is.
Problem is, when you sweat the little things, you usually lose the energy that you could have spent on something bigger and better.
A guy who is concerned about Facebook should probably be more concerned with his overall dating life and not just with a simple site that really doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things.
That's not the only time that I see guys sweating the small stuff. Even something like worrying about what shirt to wear to a club is really not that big of a thing if what you are trying to do is attract a woman. The style of the shirt doesn't matter one bit if you don't have the skill to talk to a woman or if you don't have the courage to even approach a woman.
Trust me, very few situations hinge on something so small. Especially when it comes to something like dating or meeting women.
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