Have you ever liked a woman and found out that some other guy had their eye on her as well?

Have you ever been in a club and approached a woman,  only to see that there were other guys who were trying to move in?

Competition amongst men for good looking women can sometimes be fierce.  I've known guys who actually went out and bought a car that they could not afford just because they thought it might make a woman they liked find them a little more appealing than another guy.

Should you have to compete with other guys like that?  I mean going out and spending money that you don't have just to buy something that "might" make her like you,  that's a little bit wacky,  no?

Well,  the fact is,  you do have to compete to a certain degree.  Though you probably don't have to go out and buy things that you can't afford.

Truth is,  if you are going to go after good looking women,  you'd be a fool to think that you were the only one that had his eyes set on her.  There are definitely going to be others.

There is an EASY way to compete with other guys that doesn't really feel like competing at all.

That is... by having the personality that she likes to be around the most.

If you are the guy that she thinks about when she wants to have a good time,  it doesn't matter if another guy has a better car,  a better house or job.  It's going to be YOU that she ends up spending her time with.

So,  yeah,  you do have to compete with other guys... just let them do all of the silly things like spending money that they don't have or hitting the gym for hours on end... while you work on being that fun guy that she can count on to have a good time with.

You'll win most of the time if you do that... and the women that you lose out on... will probably be the ones that are more concerned with money or other superficial things... so you'll be better off in the end anyway.

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