Making Yourself Known to a Woman

When you like a woman,  whether you already know her or she has just caught your eye,  you really don't have much of a chance of attracting her if she doesn't know you exist.  I've had talks with guys who will tell me about their "crush" that they have and one of the first things that I always ask is,  does she even know you?

The reason is simple.  She might end up thinking that you are AWESOME,  the perfect guy if she knows you.  You might find that getting her to go out on a date with you is dead easy... if she knows who you are.

On the other hand,  if she doesn't even know that you are alive...

You don't have a snowball's chance in hell.

What can you do to make sure that you are known to a woman?

• Talk to her
• Make eye contact with her long enough that she sees you,  but not long enough that you look like the crazy guy leering at her.
• Talk to her

Yeah,  I put talk to her twice for a reason.  The way that you make yourself known to a woman is dead simple.

You talk to her.  Say what's up,  tell her your name,  whatever.

Just talk to her.

There are guys that will do all sorts of funny stuff to try and get a woman to notice them.  They will act like a fool,  they will dress like a clown,  when all they have to do is gather up the balls to walk over to her and talk to her.

Let the other guys do the foolish stuff.

While they are trying to make themselves known to a woman... you'll be actually doing it.