You could say that just about all of your success with women will hinge on your ability to make conversation. Unless you were born with movie star good looks and got a little gift from the gene fairy, you are going to have to be able to hold a woman's attention while talking to her. That's just the way that it goes and there is no sense in denying that reality. If you are having a hard time making small talk with women, chances are good that you are also having a hard time attracting women. The two generally go hand in hand.
Making small talk with women is easy, but only if you let it be easy.
If you feel like you have to always be on point with the things that you say, chances are you are going to end up blowing it when you have the opportunity to talk to a woman, simply because you are going to be putting way too much pressure on yourself.
It needn't be that way at all.
Here are some things that can get a little bit of small talk going:
Whenever a guy is having trouble attracting women, he can use a little polishing up in the conversation department. Take the time to make small talk with women just for the hell of it. Just do it to have some fun, gain experience, and get a little bit better.
It'll be worth it.
Making small talk with women is easy, but only if you let it be easy.
If you feel like you have to always be on point with the things that you say, chances are you are going to end up blowing it when you have the opportunity to talk to a woman, simply because you are going to be putting way too much pressure on yourself.
It needn't be that way at all.
Here are some things that can get a little bit of small talk going:
- Talk about music with her. Most women love to talk about music, so it's one of those topics that you can almost always use as a go to when you can't think of anything to say.
- Talk about her hobbies and interests. People like to talk about themselves, they really do. Getting a woman to open up about the things that she likes is one slick way to get a conversation going that she actually enjoys.
- Talk to her about your hobbies and interests. You want to come across like a guy who does things. Not like a guy who lives a boring life. So open up about the things that you like to do. Just make sure that you don't make the entire conversation seem like you are trying to "sell" yourself to her.
- Talk to her about nonsensical things. This is a good way to keep a conversation light and funny. It's a good way to show a woman that you are not some uptight guy who can't live a little.
Whenever a guy is having trouble attracting women, he can use a little polishing up in the conversation department. Take the time to make small talk with women just for the hell of it. Just do it to have some fun, gain experience, and get a little bit better.
It'll be worth it.
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