There is one thing that I have seen time and time again prove to be effective if you really want to get over your insecurities around women and that is... IMMERSE YOURSELF in what makes you insecure. Now, I wouldn't do this all at once, that can end up proving to be a little bit too much. However, if you think that you are going to somehow get over your insecurities around women by avoiding women... it's just not going to happen.
MAKE ONE APPROACH PER DAY -
This is an exercise that can seem kind of daunting at first, but it can end up proving to really help you feel totally secure and confident around women. Make one approach per day. In 30 days, that will mean that you have now approached 30 women. Most guys don't talk to 30 women in 30 days, so you'll have the leg up when it comes to experience. What you should find, though, is that it starts to not just get easier to approach a woman, but also that it gets FUN.
You might even find that you want to make more than just one approach per day and that's fine.
If you are a sports guy like I am, then you know that the guy that makes the game winning shot doesn't just take that one shot and watch it go in, right? He takes thousands and thousands of shots in practice, in games, in his backyard before he gets that "one." That same principle applies when it comes to approaching women.
You might approach dozens of women before you find that one that really takes your breath away. The difference is, if you are no longer insecure around women, you will probably end up getting her. That's the ultimate goal, right? To get that one woman that you never thought you could. And it can happen as long as you immerse yourself and start putting yourself in situations that you struggle with.
DON'T LET YOUR INSECURITY KEEP YOU FROM GETTING THE GIRL -
No matter what, you don't want to let any insecurities that you might have around women keep you from getting that girl that you really want. How bad would it feel to know that she was there and all you had to do was walk up to her and talk to her, and you couldn't do it?
That would have to be one of the worst feelings in the world. The only way that you can rise up against your insecurities is to actually rise up. You can't shirk away and just hope that they will go away.
MAKE ONE APPROACH PER DAY -
This is an exercise that can seem kind of daunting at first, but it can end up proving to really help you feel totally secure and confident around women. Make one approach per day. In 30 days, that will mean that you have now approached 30 women. Most guys don't talk to 30 women in 30 days, so you'll have the leg up when it comes to experience. What you should find, though, is that it starts to not just get easier to approach a woman, but also that it gets FUN.
You might even find that you want to make more than just one approach per day and that's fine.
If you are a sports guy like I am, then you know that the guy that makes the game winning shot doesn't just take that one shot and watch it go in, right? He takes thousands and thousands of shots in practice, in games, in his backyard before he gets that "one." That same principle applies when it comes to approaching women.
You might approach dozens of women before you find that one that really takes your breath away. The difference is, if you are no longer insecure around women, you will probably end up getting her. That's the ultimate goal, right? To get that one woman that you never thought you could. And it can happen as long as you immerse yourself and start putting yourself in situations that you struggle with.
DON'T LET YOUR INSECURITY KEEP YOU FROM GETTING THE GIRL -
No matter what, you don't want to let any insecurities that you might have around women keep you from getting that girl that you really want. How bad would it feel to know that she was there and all you had to do was walk up to her and talk to her, and you couldn't do it?
That would have to be one of the worst feelings in the world. The only way that you can rise up against your insecurities is to actually rise up. You can't shirk away and just hope that they will go away.
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