I've seen lots of things when it comes to the pick up and seduction game. And one thing that I have always noticed is that the ones who try to play the game the hardest, don't usually do quite as well as the ones who know how to just go with the flow. Here is what I mean: A guy memorizes some kind of a routine or script that he learns and so he goes out into the field, expecting to be able to execute the routine or script flawlessly and end up having a pretty fun night.
So, he goes and he approaches a woman and that women does something he doesn't expect - she gives him other answers than what the routine or script works off of. And that throws his game off completely and he totally loses on that opportunity. It's okay to rely on a routine or a script if that is what you need to do, especially at first. But, you have to learn to be flexible.
That's really what I mean when I say that you don't want to play the game so hard.
You don't want to become so rigid in following some kind of routine that you can't play off of what is naturally happening. I've seen guys get obvious indicators of interest from women, all of the signs that they need to see to know that the woman likes them. But, because she isn't playing off a routine, the guy backs off and assumes that he had no chance.
When you do that, you lose that opportunity but you also lose something bigger than that. You lose the chance to find out if you can play in the field without any routines. That is how you become a natural. That is how you are going to become that guy who can make a woman feel attracted to him in a matter of moments.
So, he goes and he approaches a woman and that women does something he doesn't expect - she gives him other answers than what the routine or script works off of. And that throws his game off completely and he totally loses on that opportunity. It's okay to rely on a routine or a script if that is what you need to do, especially at first. But, you have to learn to be flexible.
That's really what I mean when I say that you don't want to play the game so hard.
You don't want to become so rigid in following some kind of routine that you can't play off of what is naturally happening. I've seen guys get obvious indicators of interest from women, all of the signs that they need to see to know that the woman likes them. But, because she isn't playing off a routine, the guy backs off and assumes that he had no chance.
When you do that, you lose that opportunity but you also lose something bigger than that. You lose the chance to find out if you can play in the field without any routines. That is how you become a natural. That is how you are going to become that guy who can make a woman feel attracted to him in a matter of moments.
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