It's the last thing that you want to happen when you feel like you are in a good relationship. Doing something that is going to kill a good thing is probably not high on your list of things to do, yet sometimes, you can do it without even realizing it. If you are in a relationship right now and you are hoping that it is going to last, it might be a good idea to become aware of some of the things that you can do that will potentially put you at risk for losing that good thing that you've got going.
Here are 5 almost guaranteed ways to kill a good relationship:
1 - Getting jealous when guys flirt with her in front of you.
Dating a woman who looks good can be hard sometimes, just because of the fact that you know other guys are going to think she is attractive. That also usually means that some of them are going to flirt with her right in front of you and as much as you might hate that - you can't let her see you get all jealous about it. It's not like it is something that she can control, if a guy wants to flirt with her, he's probably going to do it. What you have to keep in mind is that you are still the guy who is actually dating her and that guy who is flirting with your girlfriend probably wishes that he could be you.
2 - Making her choose you over her friends.
There was this one woman that I dated for about a year and to be honest, I couldn't really stand most of her friends. They just were not the kind of people that I would hang out with on my own. The only time I would be around those kind of people was when I was with her. You know what, though? I didn't let her know it. Most of the time, if you try to make a woman choose between her friends and you, you aren't going to like the results. Even if she does end up choosing you, that doesn't mean that she isn't going to harbor some animosity towards you for making her make that choice. Just deal with it and know that at the end of the night, it's her that you are going to be with anyway.
3 - Telling her too much about previous relationships.
Women do usually want to know about your past relationships, but that doesn't mean that they want to hear the whole story or hear about them too often. Telling her what she needs to know when she wants to know it is one thing, but revealing too much about previous relationships can end up being a relationship killer. Even if it doesn't kill it outright, it can make things seem tense and uncomfortable when the subject comes up and there is no real reason for that.
4 - Talking negatively about her family.
You might think that her brother is a complete bore and her dad is just flat out annoying and that her sister sleeps around too much, however, you might also want to keep those things to yourself. Bringing that kind of thing out into the open will usually just make things worse between you and her and there isn't much of an incentive to tell her how you really feel about her family. Take it on the chin when you have to spend time with them if you don't care for them too much, but don't make a point of telling her how you really feel if that is just going to end up being a negative discussion.
5 - Cheating on her.
Of course this is one of those "duh" kind of statements, but it still has to be said. If there is one thing that can kill a relationship rather quickly, it is cheating. Just because you might have wandering eyes, it doesn't mean that you need to act on anything and the moment that you do - is the same moment that you might effectively be saying good bye to your girlfriend and destroying the relationship at the same time. Keep it in your pants if you want the relationship to have a chance at lasting.
So what happens when you do screw things up and your relationship unravels and your girlfriend becomes your ex?
Check this site out: http://geturgirl.com/index.php?p=1_6_Get-Your-Ex-Girl-Back where you can download a free guide on getting back your ex girlfriend.
This video has some good advice as well if you want to see things from a woman's perspective dealing with trust, which can also end up killing a good relationship when there is a lack of trust.
Here are 5 almost guaranteed ways to kill a good relationship:
1 - Getting jealous when guys flirt with her in front of you.
Dating a woman who looks good can be hard sometimes, just because of the fact that you know other guys are going to think she is attractive. That also usually means that some of them are going to flirt with her right in front of you and as much as you might hate that - you can't let her see you get all jealous about it. It's not like it is something that she can control, if a guy wants to flirt with her, he's probably going to do it. What you have to keep in mind is that you are still the guy who is actually dating her and that guy who is flirting with your girlfriend probably wishes that he could be you.
2 - Making her choose you over her friends.
There was this one woman that I dated for about a year and to be honest, I couldn't really stand most of her friends. They just were not the kind of people that I would hang out with on my own. The only time I would be around those kind of people was when I was with her. You know what, though? I didn't let her know it. Most of the time, if you try to make a woman choose between her friends and you, you aren't going to like the results. Even if she does end up choosing you, that doesn't mean that she isn't going to harbor some animosity towards you for making her make that choice. Just deal with it and know that at the end of the night, it's her that you are going to be with anyway.
3 - Telling her too much about previous relationships.
Women do usually want to know about your past relationships, but that doesn't mean that they want to hear the whole story or hear about them too often. Telling her what she needs to know when she wants to know it is one thing, but revealing too much about previous relationships can end up being a relationship killer. Even if it doesn't kill it outright, it can make things seem tense and uncomfortable when the subject comes up and there is no real reason for that.
4 - Talking negatively about her family.
You might think that her brother is a complete bore and her dad is just flat out annoying and that her sister sleeps around too much, however, you might also want to keep those things to yourself. Bringing that kind of thing out into the open will usually just make things worse between you and her and there isn't much of an incentive to tell her how you really feel about her family. Take it on the chin when you have to spend time with them if you don't care for them too much, but don't make a point of telling her how you really feel if that is just going to end up being a negative discussion.
5 - Cheating on her.
Of course this is one of those "duh" kind of statements, but it still has to be said. If there is one thing that can kill a relationship rather quickly, it is cheating. Just because you might have wandering eyes, it doesn't mean that you need to act on anything and the moment that you do - is the same moment that you might effectively be saying good bye to your girlfriend and destroying the relationship at the same time. Keep it in your pants if you want the relationship to have a chance at lasting.
So what happens when you do screw things up and your relationship unravels and your girlfriend becomes your ex?
Check this site out: http://geturgirl.com/index.php?p=1_6_Get-Your-Ex-Girl-Back where you can download a free guide on getting back your ex girlfriend.
This video has some good advice as well if you want to see things from a woman's perspective dealing with trust, which can also end up killing a good relationship when there is a lack of trust.
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