These guys produce some funny stuff,  but this one in particular is really funny to me.  

I actually don't have a lot to say today,  but I did come across an article on Psychology Today that is worth a read.  It's from a clinical psychologist,  so if you are one of those guys who really wants to get a clinical look at what a woman might find attractive,  it's worth checking out.  Having a glance,  I'd say that there are some things that I agree with and some that don't seem to ring so true to me as far as my experience with women goes.  Still,  it's worth a look,  so here it is: http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/head-games/201303/what-women-find-sexy

Most guys who get into the idea of learning how to attract and seduce women seem to only want to get their information from guys and mostly from guys with no psychology background and no clinical background.  I think that is okay,  but I also think that you should check out what women have to say about attraction,  they aren't all oblivious to what is going on when they are attracted to a man.  And to get some advice or some insight from research can be good,  though you do have to be careful because some of the time,  the way that they set the research up is too clinical and not at all like what happens in the real world.

I've seen lots of things when it comes to the pick up and seduction game.  And one thing that I have always noticed is that the ones who try to play the game the hardest,  don't usually do quite as well as the ones who know how to just go with the flow.  Here is what I mean:  A guy memorizes some kind of a routine or script that he learns and so he goes out into the field,  expecting to be able to execute the routine or script flawlessly and end up having a pretty fun night.  

So,  he goes and he approaches a woman and that women does something he doesn't expect - she gives him other answers than what the routine or script works off of.  And that throws his game off completely and he totally loses on that opportunity.  It's okay to rely on a routine or a script if that is what you need to do,  especially at first.  But,  you have to learn to be flexible.

That's really what I mean when I say that you don't want to play the game so hard.

You don't want to become so rigid in following some kind of routine that you can't play off of what is naturally happening. I've seen guys get obvious indicators of interest from women,  all of the signs that they need to see to know that the woman likes them.  But,  because she isn't playing off a routine,  the guy backs off and assumes that he had no chance.

When you do that,  you lose that opportunity but you also lose something bigger than that.  You lose the chance to find out if you can play in the field without any routines.  That is how you become a natural.  That is how you are going to become that guy who can make a woman feel attracted to him in a matter of moments.