Do Bad Boys Really Get the Girls?
You know they do.
You've seen it before, the bad boy that shouldn't get the girl ends up getting her and it makes you feel like you've been doing all of the wrong things all along. You may be right. It's not that you have to be some kind of a jerk to be a bad boy or have the success that they have.
It's just that bad boys play the game a little bit differently than you do and that is why they end up getting different results.
You want to get the same results and the way to do that is to crack the code on why the bad boys do well with women so that you can reap some of the same rewards.
Here are some suggestions that I can think of that WILL help you to get some of that success that you see the bad boys having with women:
1. Discard what you have been taught about attracting women if you are not getting the results that you want to get.
There are plenty of examples of guys following all of the advice that they have gotten over the years about how to seduce a woman and it not paying off and if you are one of those guys, the answer is pretty simple. You need to discard what you have been told about attracting women and you need to instead focus on the things that actually work out. If you are going to be good at this dating thing, then you need to be ready to make some changes and this is one change that you are going to have to make. One of the things that bad boys do with women is that they play by a different set of rules than you do and that is something that you are going to have to acknowledge.
2. Fear is not going to get you what you want, so you need to remove the fear that you have about approaching women.
Approaching women is one subject that can make even the most confident guy get a little bit nervous, but it is something that bad boys don't seem to have a problem with. If you want to reap some of the same rewards, then you need to get over any fears that you might have about approaching women. To give into that fear is to lose control over the things that you can do to make a woman like you and that is something that you cannot allow to happen. And you also have to admit that if you are afraid to approach women, you are probably going to end up with hardly any opportunities to get a girlfriend as well.
3. You have got to be able to make women feel like they want to win you over and not have it be the other way around.
This is how it works out for most men - They meet a woman they like and they make it clear to her that they like her and then they spend the rest of their time and their effort to try and win her over. That usually means that they are going to chase her around and hope that they can "catch" her. On the other hand, guys who are generally known as being the bad boy type are not really the ones that do all of the chasing. Most of the time, it is the woman that does the chasing and that changes EVERYTHING.
4. Bad boys are not afraid to be seductive when they know that they want to hook up with a woman.
Another thing that nice guys will usually never get right is the simple fact that they are afraid to get seductive when they are around a woman that they want to hook up with. Bad boys will do the opposite and they WILL seduce a woman they like and they are not afraid to do that. If you are going to be able to do the same thing - then you need to be able to be honest about things and find a way to become seductive when you are around a woman.
5. If you want to be the bad boy that attracts women, you have to be a RISK TAKER.
Taking risks is a part of life, but for some reason, most guys seem to be afraid to take risks when it comes to dating or meeting women. You may be fearful of getting rejected by a woman, but that cannot stop you from trying. If you are not a risk taker and you don't face any risk at all... you are not going to get a reward. When that reward is a woman's affection, then you are going to be missing out on a lot. Don't allow fear to drive the wheel and keep you from taking risks because that is something that bad boys do well and that is why they also tend to be more successful with women than nice guys are.
You've seen it before, the bad boy that shouldn't get the girl ends up getting her and it makes you feel like you've been doing all of the wrong things all along. You may be right. It's not that you have to be some kind of a jerk to be a bad boy or have the success that they have.
It's just that bad boys play the game a little bit differently than you do and that is why they end up getting different results.
You want to get the same results and the way to do that is to crack the code on why the bad boys do well with women so that you can reap some of the same rewards.
Here are some suggestions that I can think of that WILL help you to get some of that success that you see the bad boys having with women:
1. Discard what you have been taught about attracting women if you are not getting the results that you want to get.
There are plenty of examples of guys following all of the advice that they have gotten over the years about how to seduce a woman and it not paying off and if you are one of those guys, the answer is pretty simple. You need to discard what you have been told about attracting women and you need to instead focus on the things that actually work out. If you are going to be good at this dating thing, then you need to be ready to make some changes and this is one change that you are going to have to make. One of the things that bad boys do with women is that they play by a different set of rules than you do and that is something that you are going to have to acknowledge.
2. Fear is not going to get you what you want, so you need to remove the fear that you have about approaching women.
Approaching women is one subject that can make even the most confident guy get a little bit nervous, but it is something that bad boys don't seem to have a problem with. If you want to reap some of the same rewards, then you need to get over any fears that you might have about approaching women. To give into that fear is to lose control over the things that you can do to make a woman like you and that is something that you cannot allow to happen. And you also have to admit that if you are afraid to approach women, you are probably going to end up with hardly any opportunities to get a girlfriend as well.
3. You have got to be able to make women feel like they want to win you over and not have it be the other way around.
This is how it works out for most men - They meet a woman they like and they make it clear to her that they like her and then they spend the rest of their time and their effort to try and win her over. That usually means that they are going to chase her around and hope that they can "catch" her. On the other hand, guys who are generally known as being the bad boy type are not really the ones that do all of the chasing. Most of the time, it is the woman that does the chasing and that changes EVERYTHING.
4. Bad boys are not afraid to be seductive when they know that they want to hook up with a woman.
Another thing that nice guys will usually never get right is the simple fact that they are afraid to get seductive when they are around a woman that they want to hook up with. Bad boys will do the opposite and they WILL seduce a woman they like and they are not afraid to do that. If you are going to be able to do the same thing - then you need to be able to be honest about things and find a way to become seductive when you are around a woman.
5. If you want to be the bad boy that attracts women, you have to be a RISK TAKER.
Taking risks is a part of life, but for some reason, most guys seem to be afraid to take risks when it comes to dating or meeting women. You may be fearful of getting rejected by a woman, but that cannot stop you from trying. If you are not a risk taker and you don't face any risk at all... you are not going to get a reward. When that reward is a woman's affection, then you are going to be missing out on a lot. Don't allow fear to drive the wheel and keep you from taking risks because that is something that bad boys do well and that is why they also tend to be more successful with women than nice guys are.